"Then Comes Marriage," is a blog that's going to be solely on the wonderful thing we all hope to participate in someday... marriage! This website will contain lots of good material from the Presidents of the LDS church, a book titled 'Successful Marriages and Families' by Hawkins, Dollahite and Draper, a couple other resources along with my own personal experiences. The purpose of the blog is to help marriages stay fresh :) Why can't we be in the "honeymoon stage" forever?

Wednesday, March 20, 2013

"The Warm, Happy Marriage: Cold, Hard Facts to Consider," by Elizabeth VanDenBerghe & Alan J. Hawkins (Chapter 7)



This chapter in the book mainly just goes over studies that have been done to prove that their are physical benefits in a marriage. It is important to note that while their is a higher percentage of physically and mentally healthy people who are more apt to marry, researchers did other experiments to show the effects after marriage instead of just the percentage of healthy, married people. 
The Benefits
         An extensive body of evidence documents that married adults are clearly healthier than their non-married counterparts. They have lower rates of morbidity and mortality, and their health benefits persist even when factors such as race, income and health status prior to marriage are taken into account. 
At older ages, married people are significantly healthier and experience fewer physical limitations in daily activities than their non-married counterparts. Married people are generally happier, the studies find, with great life satisfaction, lower risk for depression, and greater economic stability, all contributing to better mental health. (Wood, Goesling, & Avellar, 2007)
        While some speculate that marriage makes men happier than women, research suggests that both reap mental benefits from the union. (Waite & Gallagher, 2000). A  significant study published in Psychological Medicine (Scott et al., 2009) concludes that marriage reduces the risk of mental disorders for both men and women; however, gender differences exist. For men, marriage lowers their risk for depression and panic disorder. For women, it reduces their risk of substance abuse. For both genders, marriage offers higher levels of social integration as well as a source of emotional support from which spouses draw a sense of being esteemed, valued, and cared about. 
Further contributing to a sense of security for married couples are well-documented economic benefits. Married couples, even those with lower incomes, report greater financial security and, as a result, have greater access to better housing, food, and services like health care that the never-married, divorced, or widowed. (Stack and Eshleman, 1998)
       "Is There Something Unique about Marriage?" is another study about behavioral medicine. The authors researched whether an above-average social network of family and friends could compensate, in terms of psychological and cardiovascular health, for not being married. Interestingly, "there does appear to be something unique about the spousal relationship," conclude the authors, "as relationships did not compensate for the lack of a satisfying marriage" (pg. 243) The researchers found that the spousal relationship, with its intimacy, time involvement, and especially commitment level, exerted a much stronger positive influence on health that other relationships. 
      According to the National Healthy Marriage Resource Center and its own rigorous synthesis of the research, "a good-enough, or healthy marriage-one that is low in negativity-will provide cumulative, lifelong protection against chronic illness and premature death for both men and women, as well as greatly increasing the chances that their children will grow up healthy. These benefits seem only to increase as couple grow old together."

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